

A Promising Young Woman & A Mythology of False Accusations & Male Redemption
"That the niceness they parade publicly is directly juxtaposed to the inward cruelty and harmfulness they feel comfortable only to...


On Kindness as a Weakness
When the "not assertive", "not tested", "no power", "naive", "chaos muppet"-like, things stay with me, I think of my childhood. I think...


Something Important and Nuanced
This has nailed it. This is exactly what I was talking about in I Feel it All. This word, that label is a hard one to assign even when...

Accountability- Come Get Your Man
[Strange anxieties befall on me Thursdays . Read on for Part 2 to get some personal goss. Alternatively phrased as "come collect your...


Happy International Women's Day
As women, we are taught to be polite, to be docile, and to be flexible. As black women especially, we are taught to be palatable, etc....

On the Horizon
Due to my brain being soup and a few life circumstances, I've delayed a couple of posts. But you can look out for the first or even...


Love at First Listen
Today is brought to you by the letter M for music and for Emile Monserri, one of my favorite film composers and focus for today's Love at...


Thank You and Stay Tuned
I wanted to say thank you to anyone who read wrote Not Me Too and I Feel it All. The dozens of views and kind words are more than...

Not Me Too Pt 5 ( I guess)- I Feel It All. I Feel It All
I remember being in my room at 13 and hearing this song "I Feel It All" appear on the rotating queue of Music Choice Alternative station...

Delight
I read this book earlier in the year by Ross Gay called the Book of Delights. His objective was to not just celebrate the good big...