Black Questions - (White)American Fiction
Just thoughts I had after watching American Fiction last night. I highly recommend it , but it sparked a lot thoughts around white...
Love At First Listen- Blame Brett, Blame My Ex
A few months ago before Blame Brett came out, I had seen the 30 second clip of it on Tik Tok when there was only maybe 2,000 views told...
I Owe You Some Stories - "Not Me Too, All of us" "Springsteen & I" "A Year of Women Telling the Truth" "What would Mama Say" and more.
I think I owe you an explanation reader. I meant to make this space a home for a bunch of sort of journalesque regular update through...
May December -Aesthetics of Victimhood, Accountability, Exploitation in Predatory Relationships
There has to be a word invented to describe the sensation of deep discomfort, mild seductiveness, and subtle subterfuge that's tonally...
Failures of the Anti-Racism Book Club (or as I call them 'Yt Guilt Circle Jerks')
Exhaustion floods me when I see anti-racist white people - still using microaggressions, still mistreating black people and treating us...
A Daily Dose of Women Helping Women
Other Comments : I write about these shit experiences only in service of helping other women, myself even included. So many women are...
My Heart in a Snapshot
In EMDR, the first thing Camille, my trauma therapist, told me to do was imagine a safe place. Mine looked like a cottage in the woods...
A Companion to “Experimenting w/ Black Girls”
It's so strange how universal our experiences as black women really are in this country. I found this poem today. In it, the poets...
Love At First Listen - Used to Be Young (1/2 Great Miley Songs this Year)
Justice for Jaded In “Used To Be Young,” Miley Cyrus looks back on her sometimes wild and crazy past, but not with regret, as most would...