The Moth to a John Wick-Reiki Candle Flame, Nickel Creek, & Pulaski at Night
Matthew would make me late for Judgment Day, I thought to myself as I sat beside him in the car. And in doing so would cause me to...
Trauma Made You an Alchemist
So many people I know that have been through severe trauma and instead of hurting and turning that destruction on others , have become...
The "My Ex is a Narcissist" Zeitgeist
While I appreciate that popular psych has put out into the world many useful topics for public discussion, consumption and evaluation, I...
A Promising Young Woman & A Mythology of False Accusations & Male Redemption
"That the niceness they parade publicly is directly juxtaposed to the inward cruelty and harmfulness they feel comfortable only to...
On Kindness as a Weakness
When the "not assertive", "not tested", "no power", "naive", "chaos muppet"-like, things stay with me, I think of my childhood. I think...
Something Important and Nuanced
This has nailed it. This is exactly what I was talking about in I Feel it All. This word, that label is a hard one to assign even when...
Accountability- Come Get Your Man
[Strange anxieties befall on me Thursdays . Read on for Part 2 to get some personal goss. Alternatively phrased as "come collect your...
Happy International Women's Day
As women, we are taught to be polite, to be docile, and to be flexible. As black women especially, we are taught to be palatable, etc....
On the Horizon
Due to my brain being soup and a few life circumstances, I've delayed a couple of posts. But you can look out for the first or even...